Reviewing and Responding to Expenses
When You Receive an Expense
You'll be notified when your co-parent submits an expense for your approval.
Your Options
Approve
- You agree the expense is valid and your share is correct
- Click Approve — no further action needed
Decline
- You disagree with the expense
- Click Decline and select a reason:
- Not a shared expense
- Amount is incorrect
- Wasn't discussed/pre-approved
- Duplicate submission
- Other (explain)
Request Changes
- The concept is fine but details need adjustment
- Suggest a different amount or split
What Happens to Declined Expenses
Declined expenses:
- Remain in the record (they're not deleted)
- Show as "Declined" with your reason
- Don't affect the settlement calculation
- Can be referenced if the dispute continues